sometimes we just don't know what we want, do we? we agonize over which dessert to have, which skirt to buy, which choice to make. unfortunately sometimes the thing in question is taken by the time we actually do decide. which makes me wonder, is it that we didn't want it in the first place, and were only stalling for time, or was it truly a wasted opportunity? i guess this's one of the perks of having a developed prefrontal cortex.. you don't see sheep agonizing over the patch of grass they should've grazed on instead, do you?